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Robert Dull wrote:
gonna add a bit here if that's ok,remember these words and live by them,CALM BUT ASSERTIVE. What I wrote above still goes,but use the "bite" at the last resort,it does work btw. Solitare,again who is in control I say not you!!!! You stop the behaviors before it escalates,be the alpha. Giving the ball is only rewarding the unwanted behavior,stop them before it gets that point,make them sit,whatever,place the attention on you,but stay calm,but assertive. IT WORKS
My house is calm,there is no second,it's me,period,hence zero issues,I am the leader,no issues. And I never have had to use the "bite". ...Show more →
Robert, I thank you for the well meant advise,but I think there is abit of a misunderstanding here. There is no need whatsoever for the behaviour you are advising in the situation I described.
What happens is that both dogs, in their eager to be the first to please get a bit ahead of themselves and then this happens:
DSC_5297 by Amy Lumi, on Flickr
DSC_3423 by Amy Lumi, on Flickr
In itself, clear communication and nothing un-doggedly about it, but rather then verbally picking the dogs apart, like you advise, we prefer to send them off with a ball or rope or leash and do not have to worry about having to assert ourselves in such situations. What we are aiming at is that our dogs can behave like dogs, and that we can enjoy them.
As far as control goes, dogs are not stupid. They fully realise humans are not dogs. They do also realise you are not female (going by your name here so correct me if I am mistaken) and they also know for a fact that you are not the pack leader, because you are not part of the pack. Do not try to be something you are not. Instead, I do agree on being clear in your intention and intend (not expect. That's hoping. You need to know. That's the trick) to have your dogs behave when you're around.
I could write a lot about the differences between training dogs and living in mutual respect with dogs, but I do believe that all this started with a misunderstanding, so I think that we're persueing the same goals here, but use different wording to descibe what we want and do.
Here is a little video of Amy doing her best to impress my girlfriend 
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