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I had a preacher at my last wedding explain to me why the rules are so, well, we call it restrictive.
To quote the pastor:
"The bride and groom invited all their friends and family here today to see them get married, not to see the photographer running about the sanctuary. I know my rules are restrictive and I'll be happy to restage anything you'd like afterwards, but once the ceremony starts you will be in the center aisle and stay behind the last row of guests. and of course, no flash."
Then he tells me a few 'war stories'. The worst two - Uncle Bob (really, the brides uncle) comes up on the altar, climbing over the little railing thing and stands behind the priest.
Oh, a pro would never do that? Well, he's a had a pro ask him to move during the ceremony! Umm, that's a bit over the top IMO.
Think about it this way. What do the bride and groom expect form the ceremony pics? They have no clue, do they? I've had requests and questions about all sorts of wedding pics from getting ready, details, dances, formals of course, but never ever not one time was I asked about ceremony shots - "can you get...." or "will you be able to get..." or "did you get....." or the worst, "why didn't you get....".
THey don't ask, ever. Why? They have no expectations. And as such, you've got nothing to live up to.
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