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My advise is, don't go.
And what exactly is the reason for this? - Have you even been there?
To the OP, i lived 3 years in Indonesia, although it was some time ago, so i cant really advise on the latest. What i can say it that it is a wonderful place. Like any place in SE Asia however, you should do your homework, and be ready for anything.
I would recommend picking up the latest version of Lonely Plant, and read it carefully, they are good for people who wish to travel independently, and off the beaten track. I have relied on them many times for regular trips around the world, and they have never disappointed.
You say that you will be visiting family, you should be able to get some local knowledge there, its hard to beat.
Im sure it will be a great trip.