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hassy501
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p.2 #1 · Uncomfortable Situation


She will love them !!


Oh, by the way..........I "see" you did a "sparkler" shot...hmmmmm......"20 seconds of smoke" ?

It looks cool......



Jul 08, 2008 at 08:37 AM
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p.2 #2 · Uncomfortable Situation


you did an amazing job!!!

*clap clap*



Jul 08, 2008 at 08:40 AM
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p.2 #3 · Uncomfortable Situation


Mel,

Great shots as always. Love the bride's pink shoes. LOVE the moon shot.

As far as the uncomfortable part goes, I believe this arises because marketing tries to force us to accept a rigid mold of what beauty is. We are constantly force-fed what the "perfect" bride should look like. She should be oh-so-thin, have an "airbrushed" complexion, brilliantly white and straight teeth, and the list goes on and on. But in this quest for the "perfection of beauty", we lose the "human" aspect of our subject. The true beauty and uniqueness of the individual gets lost when trying to make them fit an unrealistic level of perfection.

As an example, there is another thread about before-and-after photos with PS work. Although there is a very high level of skill involved, my opinion is that the models look more like mannequins, and less like real living women: complexions unrealistically smoothed; eye shapes are changed; ears are made smaller; arms (already thin) are made even more slim; lips are altered; hair is added. The real person is lost.

Don't get me wrong, I believe there is a time for some PS work (acne, stray-hairs, etc.), but I believe it should be minimal. The true beauty of a wedding is that you have a man and a woman who have fallen in love with each other, despite their being imperfect. Capturing that in the photos is what photography is about.

Having said all that, Mel, you did a great job. Here's looking forward to your next post.

Patrick

PS - Do you arrive at each wedding venue in an invisible jet? After all, you are "Wonder Woman".



Jul 08, 2008 at 09:14 AM
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p.2 #4 · Uncomfortable Situation


Mel, great job! I love the pink keds. That one shot says a whole lot about the B&G.

I'm almost 100% relocated to Nashville. Hopefully I can find some neat places to shoot.

Mark



Jul 08, 2008 at 09:34 AM
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p.2 #5 · Uncomfortable Situation


As rare as it is that I enter the wedding forum, the title of this thread had me wondering.

And, after going through this set, I'm absolutely amazed at the quality of work. I occasionally say wow in my head while on here, but this one had me say a few wows, out loud. Really, really incredible work.

Adrian



Jul 08, 2008 at 09:35 AM
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p.2 #6 · Uncomfortable Situation


Like them all, but the moon shot really stands out to me.


Jul 08, 2008 at 09:35 AM
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p.2 #7 · Uncomfortable Situation


Mel...you did an incredible job on this wedding. Great images that don't distract the viewer...she should be EXTREMELY happy with these.

cheers.



Jul 08, 2008 at 09:42 AM
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p.2 #8 · Uncomfortable Situation


Mel, you handled this beautifully.
I have to admit, I bristled at a term used by the first poster ("figmented"):

"well, shes got some really rad shots that dont show her badside.. tho her portraits arent gonna be a looker..."

My 5 1/2-year-old granddaughter is severely disabled, born with a rare syndrome. We've learned to ignore the stares and the insensitive comments, but it boggles my mind as to why mature adults miss the message--"There but for the grace of God go I."

This bride does not have a "badside". It's a beautiful thing when we witness a person like her groom, who sees deeper than surface beauty. He is exceptional, and I expect they'll have an exceptional marriage because of it. Your work is exceptional, too, Mel. Congratulations on a fabulous collection of wedding photos!



Jul 08, 2008 at 09:44 AM
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p.2 #9 · Uncomfortable Situation


No comment on how the 'elephant in the room' was handled. These are wonderful pictures. Obviously the groom sees the brides true beauty, and the photos bring out that beauty as well.

Mel you're awesome.



Jul 08, 2008 at 10:37 AM
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p.2 #10 · Uncomfortable Situation


I can't express....

Exquisite.



Jul 08, 2008 at 10:44 AM
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p.2 #11 · Uncomfortable Situation


Y'all actually made me get weepy! Thank you SO much!




Jul 08, 2008 at 10:55 AM
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p.2 #12 · Uncomfortable Situation


And, Hassy... that was for the cheapy sparklers! These were the expensive, 4 minute ones!


Jul 08, 2008 at 10:55 AM
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p.2 #13 · Uncomfortable Situation


Truely amazing Mel

The more I scrolled down they just kept getting better, brilliant job.



Jul 08, 2008 at 11:23 AM
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p.2 #14 · Uncomfortable Situation


Why is there no emoticon for: "tips hat and inclines head in a respectful bow for recognition of superb professional achievement?"

Edited by Evan Baines on Jul 08, 2008 at 10:26 AM GMT

Edited on Jul 08, 2008 at 11:26 AM



Jul 08, 2008 at 11:26 AM
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p.2 #15 · Uncomfortable Situation


unblinkable wrote:
And, Hassy... that was for the cheapy sparklers! These were the expensive, 4 minute ones!



Awesome !! Uniquely singular !



Jul 08, 2008 at 11:26 AM
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Evan Baines wrote:
Why is there no emoticon for: "tips hat and inclines head in a respectful bow for recognition of superb professional achievement?"

Edited by Evan Baines on Jul 08, 2008 at 10:26 AM GMT


Hahaha! Thank, Evan... that is high praise from you.

I thought about you several times over the weekend. I'm SO sorry we couldn't get together!!! But we go through Nashville at least once or twice a year, so there'll be another opportunity soon! Maybe in October!



Jul 08, 2008 at 11:28 AM
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p.2 #17 · Uncomfortable Situation


hassy501 wrote:
Awesome !! Uniquely singular !


I just wish I could have closed the heart!!! It's bugging me!!!



Jul 08, 2008 at 11:29 AM
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p.2 #18 · Uncomfortable Situation


They're perfect. You've captured the emotion flawlessly.


Jul 08, 2008 at 11:37 AM
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p.2 #19 · Uncomfortable Situation


Tremendous. You're an angel of a human being Melanie.


Jul 08, 2008 at 12:02 PM
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p.2 #20 · Uncomfortable Situation


You did a awesome job considering going in blind....


Jul 08, 2008 at 12:04 PM
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