11 y.o bride
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Chris Fawkes
Registered: Feb 02, 2006
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Story here http://www.novinite.com/view_news.php?id=109494

Not my photo btw.


NikonAndy
Registered: Apr 11, 2006
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Country: United States

That guy looks stoned out of his mind. Not gonna blame him, just saying.



cordellwillis
Registered: Aug 24, 2004
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Different cultures, countries, etc; so we can't knock them for it. HOWEVER, this line is very sad: "I'm not going to play with toys any more, I have a new toy now". I'm sure she did not mean that literally, but just the thought of her young mind and the idea that some people actually think this way.



aromatic
Registered: Nov 01, 2009
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"I'm not going to play with toys any more, I have a new toy now," the 11-year-old bride



I realize that the culture in other countries is different, but having a child at 11 cannot be healthy.



vince v
Registered: Feb 28, 2008
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I realize that the culture in other countries is different, but having a child at 11 cannot be healthy.


impregnating an 11y/o is just sick (in my mind). When I was 11, my bike was the Millennium Falcon and the dome jungle gym was the Death Star. There's no way I could picture my Princess Leia (then 11) PREGNANT! YIKES!



Mr. Malik
Registered: Sep 13, 2009
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NikonAndy wrote:
That guy looks stoned out of his mind. Not gonna blame him, just saying.


+ 10!



Saint Sigma
Registered: Jun 18, 2008
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Is it just me or are their biological clocks running a little early? 13-year old pregnancies are routine? Getting pregnant that early is definitely a bad thing, psychologically and physically.



Tony Hoffer
Registered: Mar 14, 2008
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cordellwillis wrote:
Different cultures, countries, etc; so we can't knock them for it.


Just because its a different culture doesn't mean its not wrong. Think about child labor...



cSpencer
Registered: Oct 23, 2009
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If in their culture she is old enough to get married, wouldn't child birth be acceptable as well? If in their culture getting married and childbirth is commonplace, then physically and mentally wouldn't she be more prepared?



Saad Syed
Registered: Jan 24, 2007
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Country: United States

The understanding of different cultures is crucial. In some parts of the world, children are forced to fight for survival. Child soldiers the age of 11-13 are running around with AK-47's fighting for freedom, trying to escape a local druglord/warlord's reign of terror (or supporting it), and risking everything for their families. In some parts of the world, you don't have the luxury of living until your 70's, 80's, 90's, etc. You'd be lucky if you hit 45.

My father tells me stories of how when East Pakistan fell and the Bengali revolution happened. There were multiple genocides going on both sides. My grandfather had to stay as he was an officer, but he shipped his family (literally over night) back to West Pakistan. They were homeless... literally lived in a shack. My father, the third son out of a lineup of five, had to start working at the age of about 12. He was in a new land where people didn't want him - essentially an immigrant - and had to put together money with the two older brothers to support a family. They were 3 sisters and 5 brothers with 1 mother... and no idea if their father was still alive... in a third world country during one of the bloodiest revolutions of the century.

Anyway, not to get off-topic ... my aunts all married young. Very young. Everyone did. You didn't know what was going to happen tomorrow, so you lived in the today. People in the west a lot of times have no idea or understanding of what the lifestyle is like at other parts of the world. Granted the scenario I talked about was during an era of war, and the girl in the article isn't going through any of that. All I'm saying is that it's unfair to paint with a broad brush if you don't know everyone's situation.

Moreover, a note about child labor - as Tony mentioned - (a lot of it happens in India/Pakistan... those children might work in Pakistan/India/etc. under managers that are Indian/Pakistani... however, the companies they work for and the warehouses they work in are American, British, French. Some food for thought.



Chris Fawkes
Registered: Feb 02, 2006
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Country: Australia

The guy is going to jail.

Not sure how that works given that they can have a wedding.



cSpencer
Registered: Oct 23, 2009
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Chris Fawkes wrote:
The guy is going to jail.
Not sure how that works given that they can have a wedding.


They are both teens, are married, and 13 year old moms are routine. Why would he go to jail again?



Chris Fawkes
Registered: Feb 02, 2006
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Country: Australia

11 isn't a teen. the reports say the boy will get up to six years jail.



cSpencer
Registered: Oct 23, 2009
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Chris Fawkes wrote:
11 isn't a teen. the reports say the boy will get up to six years jail.


Ah, got it now. Thx



Chris Fawkes
Registered: Feb 02, 2006
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Country: Australia

cSpencer wrote:
Chris Fawkes wrote:
11 isn't a teen. the reports say the boy will get up to six years jail.


Ah, got it now. Thx


I have no idea how it works, that it is illegal for him to have sex with a minor but he can still marry her.



HJ_Mayes
Registered: Mar 21, 2009
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I couldn't even imagine having a child when I was 11. I think I was still playing with Barbie dolls. Different culture or not, I don't know what that would do to a child's body either.

That's a wedding I would not shoot for any amount of money. Period. I could not be objective in that situation.



Chris Fawkes
Registered: Feb 02, 2006
Total Posts: 3128
Country: Australia

HJ_Mayes wrote:
I couldn't even imagine having a child when I was 11. I think I was still playing with Barbie dolls. Different culture or not, I don't know what that would do to a child's body either.

That's a wedding I would not shoot for any amount of money. Period. I could not be objective in that situation.


That looks more like a Hassas photo anyway.



ai3x
Registered: May 02, 2005
Total Posts: 1814
Country: United Kingdom

Chris Fawkes wrote:
HJ_Mayes wrote:
I couldn't even imagine having a child when I was 11. I think I was still playing with Barbie dolls. Different culture or not, I don't know what that would do to a child's body either.

That's a wedding I would not shoot for any amount of money. Period. I could not be objective in that situation.


That looks more like a Hassas photo anyway.


Ah! That explains why he was flying USAir....



alexromo
Registered: May 30, 2008
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Country: United States

there are way younger mothers out there im sure



canonet
Registered: Aug 10, 2005
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Country: United States

Chris Fawkes wrote:


This image is copyrighted by the owner




Story here http://www.novinite.com/view_news.php?id=109494

Not my photo btw.

The girl is not built like a 11 yr old. Dude looks like he wants to be elsewhere.


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