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p.2 #1 · Uncomfortable Situation

Like them all, but the moon shot really stands out to me.

Jul 08, 2008 at 02:35 PM

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p.2 #2 · Uncomfortable Situation

Mel...you did an incredible job on this wedding. Great images that don't distract the viewer...she should be EXTREMELY happy with these.

cheers.

Jul 08, 2008 at 02:42 PM

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Mel, you handled this beautifully.
I have to admit, I bristled at a term used by the first poster ("figmented"):

"well, shes got some really rad shots that dont show her badside.. tho her portraits arent gonna be a looker..."

My 5 1/2-year-old granddaughter is severely disabled, born with a rare syndrome. We've learned to ignore the stares and the insensitive comments, but it boggles my mind as to why mature adults miss the message--"There but for the grace of God go I."

This bride does not have a "badside". It's a beautiful thing when we witness a person like her groom, who sees deeper than surface beauty. He is exceptional, and I expect they'll have an exceptional marriage because of it. Your work is exceptional, too, Mel. Congratulations on a fabulous collection of wedding photos!

Jul 08, 2008 at 02:44 PM

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No comment on how the 'elephant in the room' was handled. These are wonderful pictures. Obviously the groom sees the brides true beauty, and the photos bring out that beauty as well.

Mel you're awesome.

Jul 08, 2008 at 03:37 PM

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p.2 #5 · Uncomfortable Situation

I can't express....

Exquisite.

Jul 08, 2008 at 03:44 PM

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p.2 #6 · Uncomfortable Situation

Y'all actually made me get weepy! Thank you SO much!

Jul 08, 2008 at 03:55 PM

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p.2 #7 · Uncomfortable Situation

And, Hassy... that was for the cheapy sparklers! These were the expensive, 4 minute ones!

Jul 08, 2008 at 03:55 PM

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p.2 #8 · Uncomfortable Situation

Truely amazing Mel

The more I scrolled down they just kept getting better, brilliant job.

Jul 08, 2008 at 04:23 PM

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p.2 #9 · Uncomfortable Situation

Why is there no emoticon for: "tips hat and inclines head in a respectful bow for recognition of superb professional achievement?"

Edited by Evan Baines on Jul 08, 2008 at 10:26 AM GMT

Edited on Jul 08, 2008 at 04:26 PM

Jul 08, 2008 at 04:26 PM

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unblinkable wrote:
And, Hassy... that was for the cheapy sparklers! These were the expensive, 4 minute ones!

Awesome !! Uniquely singular !

Jul 08, 2008 at 04:26 PM

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Evan Baines wrote:
Why is there no emoticon for: "tips hat and inclines head in a respectful bow for recognition of superb professional achievement?"

Edited by Evan Baines on Jul 08, 2008 at 10:26 AM GMT

Hahaha! Thank, Evan... that is high praise from you.

I thought about you several times over the weekend. I'm SO sorry we couldn't get together!!! But we go through Nashville at least once or twice a year, so there'll be another opportunity soon! Maybe in October!

Jul 08, 2008 at 04:28 PM

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p.2 #12 · Uncomfortable Situation

hassy501 wrote:
unblinkable wrote:
And, Hassy... that was for the cheapy sparklers! These were the expensive, 4 minute ones!

Awesome !! Uniquely singular !

I just wish I could have closed the heart!!! It's bugging me!!!

Jul 08, 2008 at 04:29 PM

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p.2 #13 · Uncomfortable Situation

They're perfect. You've captured the emotion flawlessly.

Jul 08, 2008 at 04:37 PM

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p.2 #14 · Uncomfortable Situation

Tremendous. You're an angel of a human being Melanie.

Jul 08, 2008 at 05:02 PM

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p.2 #15 · Uncomfortable Situation

You did a awesome job considering going in blind....

Jul 08, 2008 at 05:04 PM

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p.2 #16 · Uncomfortable Situation

Being an engineer, I like to reverse-engineer things sometimes. For the more technical minded folks here who would like to be able to handle such a situation in the future, let's break down specifically what she did:

- Flare shots to distract attention a bit / wash out the couple a bit
- full-body composition to reduce the amount of face
- Minimize head shots / closeups
- full profile shots from the side
- B&G hugging / kissing to hide / bury parts of the face
- Have them interact / do something in a way that allows an expression of their love and affection for one another, keeping in mind the guidelines above.

Any other specific techniques I missed?

BTW great overall effort, you did handle this well. I suspect your experience saved you on this day.. someone new like myself would have fumbled tremendously and quietly fumed about why I wasn't informed ahead of time to mentally prepare. Ah well, I guess this is a testament to the value of a client meeting in person before a wedding, be it for a bridal, e-session or fireside chat.

Jul 08, 2008 at 05:24 PM

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p.2 #17 · Uncomfortable Situation

Lovely Mel, lovely....

Tom

Jul 08, 2008 at 05:35 PM

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bonniebruno wrote:
Mel, you handled this beautifully.
I have to admit, I bristled at a term used by the first poster ("figmented"):

"well, shes got some really rad shots that dont show her badside.. tho her portraits arent gonna be a looker..."

My 5 1/2-year-old granddaughter is severely disabled, born with a rare syndrome. We've learned to ignore the stares and the insensitive comments, but it boggles my mind as to why mature adults miss the message--"There but for the grace of God go I."

This bride does not have a "badside". It's a beautiful thing when we witness a person like her groom, who sees deeper than surface beauty. He is exceptional, and I expect they'll have an exceptional marriage because of it. Your work is exceptional, too, Mel. Congratulations on a fabulous collection of wedding photos!

this entire post bears repeating.

thank you bonnie.

Jul 08, 2008 at 05:57 PM

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p.2 #19 · Uncomfortable Situation

You did an outstanding job in a situation that required a lot of sensitivity and grace. I would hope to do as well if presented with a similar situation. She will treasure these as she should.

ken

Jul 08, 2008 at 06:03 PM

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p.2 #20 · Uncomfortable Situation

awesome job. your pictures really show how creative and sensitive wedding photographers have to be.

Jul 08, 2008 at 06:11 PM

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p.2 #21 · Uncomfortable Situation

The Groom found a woman who who loves him, the Bride found a man that loves her. It would appear that they know what is important to each other. You did a lovely job of capturing their day! How lucky they have a friend with such talent. Kudos.

Jul 08, 2008 at 06:38 PM

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p.2 #22 · Uncomfortable Situation

Amazing work! You handled this like a true professional, and it's inspirational to hear this story!

Jul 09, 2008 at 02:23 AM

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p.2 #23 · Uncomfortable Situation

stunning, sensitive and a real tribute to your beautiful couple! Made me wipe tears of joy away!!

Jul 09, 2008 at 02:31 AM

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p.2 #24 · Uncomfortable Situation

Beautiful photos! Your professionalism is unquestionable.

Jul 09, 2008 at 03:14 AM

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p.2 #25 · Uncomfortable Situation

With all the positive feedback, there's really no reason to reply. I find myself compelled to do so anyway!

You have made the absolute best of an awkward situation. You truly earned this win, they were very lucky to have you. I usually shake my head at what local wedding photographers are paid, compared to their results. No matter the number, I say you earned it.

On a side note, would they both be ok with these on the forum? Most of us are fairly mature, but some aren't...

Jul 09, 2008 at 04:18 AM


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