My deepest sympathy and best to the children. We lost a very close friend of my daughters in the beach house fire in NC a few weeks ago. I was asked to gather pics I'd taken of her over the years for a slideshow at the memorial services. Hardest thing I'd ever done in my life.
I feel so sorry for those kids, hopefully they are old enough to understand what happened. I had a friend of a friend almost go crazy because they couldn't get a 3yr old to understand Mommy wasn't coming back.