brett maxwell wrote:
the primary reason large apertures are so common in wedding photography (other than low light) is that it's one of the few (only!?) types of photography where you are expected to deliver hundreds of photos from a single day while having very little control over your locations, subjects, backgrounds, etc. Studio photographers can shoot at f11 all day because they have complete control over their set. Street photographers can shoot at f11 all day because they can go weeks or months without getting a shot that's ever viewed by the public.
This is true but shallow dof is easy to overuse and it is easy to get lazy with backgrounds. It's probably not a bad exercise to remind ourselves it is just another technique to be used when required rather than making it a default for everything and maybe try and work a little harder to make all elements of a picture work rather than just blurring everything.