Changed my picture this week and this was very tough to do.
I can't help but think of the greatest sadness in my life was losing our daughter three years ago.
Not a day goes by where I don't think about her, pray and cry.
Cherish your children.
Please don't vote for my image here. I only have it here to try and show the emotion of what a loss of a child brings to a parent.
Man this one really hits me...so Gauguin-like it is amazing, and it does so without color. It is so damn centered too...don't really care what the assignment is, this is an extremely strong image! Great one Klaus.
James Markus wrote:
Man this one really hits me...so Gauguin-like it is amazing, and it does so without color. It is so damn centered too...don't really care what the assignment is, this is an extremely strong image! Great one Klaus.
Your loss is still forefront on your mind showing just how much your daughter meant to you. I assume that piece you are holding is some of her art. She is still very much alive in you and there will be much joy when you two reunite. I am praying for you right now that you will have peace going forward as she certainly would've wanted that for her beloved father. I too have a special bond with my daughter and she is often a model for weekly assignments including this week's shoot. I will take your advice to heart and cherish her even more after being reminded of your painful experience.
Klaus, we lost our son, aged just 39, on 28th April 2010. I've been unable to comment on some of the entries this week but I just had to commend you for sharing a very private moment. I think of our son every day and I too shed tears but the love I have for him will never die.
I felt myself welling up just looking at this photo. My heart goes out to those of you who have lost a son/daughter, I can't begin to imagine how it would feel to lose one of my kids... the thought alone terrifies me.
Thank you for sharing this, it is especially meaningful with recent events in Norway.
I've been wanting to start posting to the WA again and thought to do something similar for this week's assignment but didn't have the heart for it. It's been nearly five years since my precious Antal passed suddenly and not a day has yet gone by without tears. No one but a parent who has been through such an ordeal can fully understand and I pray daily that you and I NOT be understood, since it means yet another parent mourning the loss of precious child. Your courage speaks for all of us forced to join the same lousy club. Maybe next week's assignment will be more to my liking. I do know, though, that our dear children in Spirit continue to be near us and to inspire us to greater depths in our art.
My heart goes out to you. My deepest condolences on your profound loss.
Warm regards,
Endre
Pete A wrote:
Klaus, we lost our son, aged just 39, on 28th April 2010. I've been unable to comment on some of the entries this week but I just had to commend you for sharing a very private moment. I think of our son every day and I too shed tears but the love I have for him will never die.
Thank you all so much for the thoughts and prayers. Its one day at a time.
Pete A wrote:
Klaus, we lost our son, aged just 39, on 28th April 2010. I've been unable to comment on some of the entries this week but I just had to commend you for sharing a very private moment. I think of our son every day and I too shed tears but the love I have for him will never die.
Pete,
I am so sorry to hear about your son and our prayers go out to you and your family.
We have the good memories of our children and thats what we have to hold on to.
They are still with us in spirit.
I've been wanting to start posting to the WA again and thought to do something similar for this week's assignment but didn't have the heart for it. It's been nearly five years since my precious Antal passed suddenly and not a day has yet gone by without tears. No one but a parent who has been through such an ordeal can fully understand and I pray daily that you and I NOT be understood, since it means yet another parent mourning the loss of precious child. Your courage speaks for all of us forced to join the same lousy club. Maybe next week's assignment will be more to my liking. I do know, though, that our dear children in Spirit continue to be near us and to inspire us to greater depths in our art.
Endre,
This was so very hard to do but I felt it may be a good step in the healing process for me.
Like you, there is not a day that goes by without the thoughts and tears from the loss of our child.
I would never wish this horrible pain on anyone.
I hope you do get back in here and start posting some of your beautiful work.
It might be a good thing. I really think it has helped me.
Sarah loved clouds and sunsets. When I go out and shoot them I can feel her there with me enjoying the beauty. It may sound strange but I do believe she has been guiding me so to speak when I go out and shoot and giving me another "vision".
Take care my friend and I will email you.
The WA and MA have been healing for me. There are lots of griefs in this life, and any special place that allows us to re-claim a love for life - can only lead to mended hearts. Yeah, there will be scars...but I want more than to survive...I want to live. My hearts desire would be that those in pain would find relief.
Peace
Jim
PS..The reason this is one of the special places I know - is because of the people here.