mh2000 wrote:
Do this as an experiement... next time you are with a girlfriend or signicant other and discussing something emotional, stop her or him every second and try to run to ground the exact meaning of everything you say and how it relates to every aspect of each of your lives. You can\'t do it, it isn\'t even worth it. You have to assume you are in agreement to move forward and find enjoyable meaningful time together... and when you finally break up you will realize all the ways that you didn\'t understand what you both meant.