brownchl wrote:
UPDATE: I asked for more feedback and offered her an out for her wedding contract. She responded back and said it had nothing to do with the quality of the photos or me personally, she just had higher expectations for how she was going to look. She provided feedback on the images that she felt highlighted the issues and I\'m working on those today. I\'d like to make her happy if possible, especially because she is being extremely nice and apologetic about it. I feel bad about the whole situation.
I will be the first one to say that I\'m not good with posing curvier girls, especially if I have to pose them with someone else. I feel like my boudoir skills are stronger, but it\'s a lot easier to pose a woman by herself (imo). It\'s something I really need to work on.
Based on what she is saying, I would classify her as \"reasonable person\".. I would try not to let it get to you, I know that\'s hard, but it isn\'t going to help the situation. Focus on what you can do now to resolve the issues and move forward with that. Maybe offer her a boudoir shoot where you guys can work one on one together and build the relationship. I looked at your website and your works is very nice. This is just a little bump in the road to test you, just embrace it and move forward.
brownchl wrote:
UPDATE: I asked for more feedback and offered her an out for her wedding contract. She responded back and said it had nothing to do with the quality of the photos or me personally, she just had higher expectations for how she was going to look. She provided feedback on the images that she felt highlighted the issues and I\'m working on those today. I\'d like to make her happy if possible, especially because she is being extremely nice and apologetic about it. I feel bad about the whole situation.
I will be the first one to say that I\'m not good with posing curvier girls, especially if I have to pose them with someone else. I feel like my boudoir skills are stronger, but it\'s a lot easier to pose a woman by herself (imo). It\'s something I really need to work on.
I would try not to let it get to you, I know that\'s hard, but it isn\'t going to help the situation. Focus on what you can do now to resolve the issues and move forward with that. Maybe offer her a boudoir shoot where you guys can work one on one together and build the relationship. I looked your website and your works is very nice. This is just a little bump in the road to test you, just embrace it and move forward.
brownchl wrote:
UPDATE: I asked for more feedback and offered her an out for her wedding contract. She responded back and said it had nothing to do with the quality of the photos or me personally, she just had higher expectations for how she was going to look. She provided feedback on the images that she felt highlighted the issues and I\'m working on those today. I\'d like to make her happy if possible, especially because she is being extremely nice and apologetic about it. I feel bad about the whole situation.
I will be the first one to say that I\'m not good with posing curvier girls, especially if I have to pose them with someone else. I feel like my boudoir skills are stronger, but it\'s a lot easier to pose a woman by herself (imo). It\'s something I really need to work on.
I would try not to let it get to you, I know that\'s hard, but it isn\'t going to help the situation. Focus on what you can do now to resolve the issues and move forward with that. Maybe offer her a boudoir shot where you guys can work one on one together and build the relationship. I looked your website and your works is very nice. This is just a little bump in the road to test you, just embrace it and move forward.
May 06, 2013 at 02:08 PM
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