I think what I want to try is not to circumvent local laws
Jim, I don't know, but when I get back from vacation, I will try to get this ball rolling again. First I will ask Fred and one or two others where things left off, and then go from there. I guess we should move off forum, to respect Fred's wish not to have the forum involved.
Fred earlier stated that he didn't want FM to be used for donating to the family, except through a coordinated (with Fred) attempt, so that was what was attempted. Unfortunately all attempts to find a way for the money to get to the family failed, as the state/banks are taking everything that appears. I was hoping to coordinate something with a friend of the family, but do not know how to set it up without using FM, which Fred was against, so the process has stalled...