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Chris Fawkes
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Story here http://www.novinite.com/view_news.php?id=109494

Not my photo btw.

Nov 02, 2009 at 05:35 AM
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That guy looks stoned out of his mind. Not gonna blame him, just saying.

Nov 02, 2009 at 05:40 AM
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Different cultures, countries, etc; so we can't knock them for it. HOWEVER, this line is very sad: "I'm not going to play with toys any more, I have a new toy now". I'm sure she did not mean that literally, but just the thought of her young mind and the idea that some people actually think this way.

Nov 02, 2009 at 05:41 AM
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"I'm not going to play with toys any more, I have a new toy now," the 11-year-old bride



I realize that the culture in other countries is different, but having a child at 11 cannot be healthy.

Nov 02, 2009 at 05:41 AM
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I realize that the culture in other countries is different, but having a child at 11 cannot be healthy.


impregnating an 11y/o is just sick (in my mind). When I was 11, my bike was the Millennium Falcon and the dome jungle gym was the Death Star. There's no way I could picture my Princess Leia (then 11) PREGNANT! YIKES!

Nov 02, 2009 at 06:12 AM
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NikonAndy wrote:
That guy looks stoned out of his mind. Not gonna blame him, just saying.


+ 10!

Nov 02, 2009 at 12:43 PM
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Is it just me or are their biological clocks running a little early? 13-year old pregnancies are routine? Getting pregnant that early is definitely a bad thing, psychologically and physically.

Nov 02, 2009 at 01:25 PM
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cordellwillis wrote:
Different cultures, countries, etc; so we can't knock them for it.


Just because its a different culture doesn't mean its not wrong. Think about child labor...

Nov 02, 2009 at 01:27 PM
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If in their culture she is old enough to get married, wouldn't child birth be acceptable as well? If in their culture getting married and childbirth is commonplace, then physically and mentally wouldn't she be more prepared?

Nov 02, 2009 at 01:36 PM
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The understanding of different cultures is crucial. In some parts of the world, children are forced to fight for survival. Child soldiers the age of 11-13 are running around with AK-47's fighting for freedom, trying to escape a local druglord/warlord's reign of terror (or supporting it), and risking everything for their families. In some parts of the world, you don't have the luxury of living until your 70's, 80's, 90's, etc. You'd be lucky if you hit 45.

My father tells me stories of how when East Pakistan fell and the Bengali revolution happened. There were multiple genocides going on both sides. My grandfather had to stay as he was an officer, but he shipped his family (literally over night) back to West Pakistan. They were homeless... literally lived in a shack. My father, the third son out of a lineup of five, had to start working at the age of about 12. He was in a new land where people didn't want him - essentially an immigrant - and had to put together money with the two older brothers to support a family. They were 3 sisters and 5 brothers with 1 mother... and no idea if their father was still alive... in a third world country during one of the bloodiest revolutions of the century.

Anyway, not to get off-topic ... my aunts all married young. Very young. Everyone did. You didn't know what was going to happen tomorrow, so you lived in the today. People in the west a lot of times have no idea or understanding of what the lifestyle is like at other parts of the world. Granted the scenario I talked about was during an era of war, and the girl in the article isn't going through any of that. All I'm saying is that it's unfair to paint with a broad brush if you don't know everyone's situation.

Moreover, a note about child labor - as Tony mentioned - (a lot of it happens in India/Pakistan... those children might work in Pakistan/India/etc. under managers that are Indian/Pakistani... however, the companies they work for and the warehouses they work in are American, British, French. Some food for thought.

Nov 02, 2009 at 01:59 PM
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The guy is going to jail.

Not sure how that works given that they can have a wedding.

Nov 02, 2009 at 02:05 PM
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Chris Fawkes wrote:
The guy is going to jail.
Not sure how that works given that they can have a wedding.


They are both teens, are married, and 13 year old moms are routine. Why would he go to jail again?

Nov 02, 2009 at 02:10 PM
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11 isn't a teen. the reports say the boy will get up to six years jail.

Nov 02, 2009 at 02:16 PM
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Chris Fawkes wrote:
11 isn't a teen. the reports say the boy will get up to six years jail.


Ah, got it now. Thx

Nov 02, 2009 at 02:23 PM
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cSpencer wrote:
Chris Fawkes wrote:
11 isn't a teen. the reports say the boy will get up to six years jail.


Ah, got it now. Thx


I have no idea how it works, that it is illegal for him to have sex with a minor but he can still marry her.

Nov 02, 2009 at 02:26 PM
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I couldn't even imagine having a child when I was 11. I think I was still playing with Barbie dolls. Different culture or not, I don't know what that would do to a child's body either.

That's a wedding I would not shoot for any amount of money. Period. I could not be objective in that situation.

Nov 02, 2009 at 03:12 PM
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HJ_Mayes wrote:
I couldn't even imagine having a child when I was 11. I think I was still playing with Barbie dolls. Different culture or not, I don't know what that would do to a child's body either.

That's a wedding I would not shoot for any amount of money. Period. I could not be objective in that situation.


That looks more like a Hassas photo anyway.

Nov 02, 2009 at 03:19 PM
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Chris Fawkes wrote:
HJ_Mayes wrote:
I couldn't even imagine having a child when I was 11. I think I was still playing with Barbie dolls. Different culture or not, I don't know what that would do to a child's body either.

That's a wedding I would not shoot for any amount of money. Period. I could not be objective in that situation.


That looks more like a Hassas photo anyway.


Ah! That explains why he was flying USAir....

Nov 02, 2009 at 04:50 PM
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there are way younger mothers out there im sure

Nov 02, 2009 at 09:00 PM
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Chris Fawkes wrote:






Story here http://www.novinite.com/view_news.php?id=109494

Not my photo btw.


The girl is not built like a 11 yr old. Dude looks like he wants to be elsewhere.


Nov 02, 2009 at 09:23 PM
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It appears that not everyone has read the actual article fully.

The girl was pregnant. She even gave birth on the day of the wedding, which strongly suggests this may have been the reason that the marriage took place. They may have likely been pushed by the family to avoid social taboo 'shame.' To be pregnant in a premarital relationship is looked down in many cultures.

The "toy" she was referring to was the baby, which is apparent when the article is read within in its proper context.

In regards to younger marriages, some religions and cultures have encouraged marriage after a female has reached her first menstrual cycle for different reasons. Many would be surprised which societies have done this for thousands of years.

I would suggest to learn the sociology of different cultures and history before rushing to judgement based on just a brief glance at a headline.

/asim

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Nov 02, 2009 at 09:46 PM
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Chris Fawkes wrote:


Not my photo btw.


it's mine.

Nov 02, 2009 at 09:47 PM
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Well. Wow.

That said, my mom got married very early. CRAZY early. Had me at 16 AND I have an older brother. Completely cultural though. This story seems different.

Nov 02, 2009 at 10:18 PM
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VPell wrote:
Chris Fawkes wrote:


Not my photo btw.


it's mine.


Really? Isn't that you in the pic?

Nov 03, 2009 at 04:08 AM
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Chris Fawkes wrote:
VPell wrote:
Chris Fawkes wrote:


Not my photo btw.


it's mine.


Really? Isn't that you in the pic?


As you can see by the pic, I can't remember.

Nov 03, 2009 at 04:37 AM

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