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That's something that is very difficult to impress upon people who want to be involved in air to air photography, or formation flying, it just takes a second of lost concentration/distraction to turn great fun into disaster. It happens repeatedly, and it happens to people who are really good at it. I always feel like people think you're a jerk when you tell them the realities, and it's a question that I get asked a hundred times a year.
Sounds like the 210 lost a wing or a horizontal stabilizer and spiraled into the bay, survivors not likely.