Upload & Sell: Off
It's about 6 weeks from the original post.
In my experience in this game, if she hasn't ordered/paid for by now, The odds of her ever doing so are not high.
Perhaps she decided the Dilema for you with the best outcome possible. No order, nothing for you to worry about or potentially do wrong...... Which would be whatever you ended up doing, either fulfilling or rejecting the order in someones eyes.