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From a photographer's perspective, the only part of this that is seriously problematic is the change in lighting conditions from the even shade to extreme contrast. That's unfortunate, and I'm sure it impacted the quality of your product.
The rest of it is trouble this bride brought upon herself by trying to manage her own wedding on the day of the wedding. That's what a planner is for, and even if a bride can't afford a high-end planner, hiring a friend to do it (especially a friend who knows how to say "no" to the bride) is well worth the trouble. All that, though, is how her day went, and as photographers, our primary job is to document the day as it actually happens.
Depending on whether this bride has (or, in the future, develops) a sense of humor, this will either be among the worst memories she has, or else it will be among the funniest and best memories she has. I hope your photos depict the consequences of her decisions with both grace and accuracy.