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I have done a couple weddings for family, and I will never do it again! They both expected me to do EVERYTHING for free, such as provide the CD with all images, print the 16x24 picture for them, do the bridal session, etc. Hell no, never again!
This is the thing about doing "freebies" ...
I've done it a few times. My attitude going into the freebie was, "I'm doing this for free so the expectations are going to be somewhat relaxed". For example, I did some freebies during the busy part of my season. So I've got tons of paying work on my plate that I can't even really keep up with as I would like. I decide to put these freebies back farther in the editing queue. No big rush on getting 'em out. They didn't pay a cent for my services. "You get what you pay for" and all that. Well ... the brides start being inpatient and riding my *** for performance. Uhhhh ... Sweet Pea ... I shot your dam wedding out of the kindness of my heart. You really can't be DEMANDING when you didn't pay anything, Honey Buns.
So in the end, of course, they got their pictures. I don't think I EVER - not ONCE - got even a "Thank You" out of any freebie job I ever did.
The bottom line here on freebies here is: Despite what you may assume - considering that you are not being compensated one iota for your time, talent, and hard work - the expectations in the bride's mind are not that different from if they hired some stranger to do the job! At least that's been my unfortunate experience.